People’s Republic of China

Beijing, 12.13.16 


Email concerning ongoing sessions on Skype




我常常想如果没有遇见您,我的生活会是什么样子?!那会简直不能想象,因为实在是您给我机会认识Katie及TheWork!同时,从2013年我的九天学校后,您一直非常开放地、耐心地带我做一次一次的功课。 生活中有太多问题,曾经都不知道那会认识自己的最好方式;通过很多次与您的功课,让我收获最深的就是:同样的生活场景,我可以带着念头、故事,痛苦地、郁闷地挣扎;也可以放下脑子里所有的念头、故事,安静地、平和地去看对生活中的那个挑战。 





I cannot imagine how my life would be without meeting you. It is really because you introduced me to Katie and The Work. In the meanwhile, you have been facilitating me to do The Work openly and patiently since my 2013 Nine-day school.

There are many difficulties in life. I had no idea about self-realization. The deepest learning I received through doing The Work with you is that I can either deal with difficulties stressfully and miserably by believing my unhappy thoughts or I can live life peacefully without these stressful beliefs.

There have been nearly four years since 2013 and I often look forward to The Work with you. I always wish that the time can be longer to do it with you. And I often save the most challenging worksheet for you to support me later.  I am looking forward to thanking you face to face when I have done The Work for ten years, as we planned.


Berlin, 01.16.15


Session on Skype  

This has been one of the most profound works with you that I ever had in 10 years doing the work. I have called my mother after a time of silence and I have listened to everything she gave me. I have found the places where I really really have done things that have been harmful to her. From there we came to the point where I could say to her (like in Hellingers Family constellation) you are the tall one and I am the little one. The daughter. She in the end for the first time said, that she wants to stop blaming me and said: we could try to be friends. Maybe it works.  And tomorrow we will burn old letters that she has kept as a revenge…and we will celebrate forgiveness… Imagine that!  Thank you!

New York City



Email after two private sessions

On two occasions  this past year, you have helped me greatly —  the Work — to deal with  the pain I was feeling.  Once, it was my sustained grief over the loss  of a long-term relationship, the other with my anger at my inattentive  son.  In both cases, I ended up with greater comprehension of myself and  the truths of those relationships, a relief in accepting where things  were, and, best of all, a capacity to sustain my connection and love for  these important people in my life.  My deepest thanks again. 


Sonoma 03.17.18


I want to thank and acknowledge you for the difference you have made in my life over the last two years!  I first did The Work with you two years ago when I called the Helpline and your facilitation supported me to get free from an upsetting incident I was struggling with. Since that time, have done three different online classes that you have co-led and additionally I have done more than 20 individual sessions with you via Skype.  Our connection has solidified my relationship to and the regular practice of doing The Work which in turn has brought much peace, love and joy into my life. With deep gratitude, love and thanks!